Facilitative Leadership Outline
"Management" & "Leadership"
- Four critical differences
- The manager's role as facilitative leader
- Leadership focus in management
- Setting direction
- Securing alignment
- Supporting people
- Three core values that guide facilitative leaders
- Creating a climate for cooperation
Facilitative Leadership and Self-Management
- Working from the inside out: Emotional Intelligence (EI)
- The key factor in EI: Self-management
- Managing reflexive emotions
- Devleoping non-judgmental understanding
Facilitative Communication & Motivation: The Principles
- What is "facilitative communication?"
- Six fundamental acceptances
- Communication
- Is inevitable, ambiguous
- Involves mixed messages
- Never exactly reveals another's experiences
- Motivation
- Begins with the need to be right
- Is not about "pushing someone's buttons"
- Requires context, not control
- Communication
Self-Managed Communication: Practice for Facilitative Leadership
- Seeking to Understand
- The quiet power of questions
- Listening to what they mean, not just what they say
- Non-Verbal Matter
- Adult voice: The sound of the self-management
- Emotional "positioning" for influence
- Seeking to be Understood
- Straight talk: high integrity speech
- Acknowledgement: building bridges
- Appreciation: showing genuine support
Facilitative Leadership and Influence
- "Up-management"
- "Cross-management"
- "Empowerment"
- "Improvement"
Facilitative Leadership in Challenging Situations
- Four steps to "instant calm"
- Focused dialogue for dealing with challenging situations
- Three phases in dealing with "challenges"
- Scope the challenge
- Develop a communication strategy
- Take action
- Four steps to discuss difficult issues
- Developing workable agreements